America’s future will be determined by the home and the school. The child becomes largely what he is taught; hence we must watch what we teach, and how we live.~~ Jane Addams
Teaching is a fine art that requires multiple years in advanced training to do successfully. At least that is what the educational establishment would have you think. Teachers are encouraged to study and take more classes and acquire advanced degrees. All of which can give you information, but which cannot teach you the fine art of teaching.
Jane Addams quote gives us the answer in the last part. “Watch what we teach and how we live.”
The “how we live” part of this is the most essential. Our children watch what we do and imitate us. They take on our characteristics simply by observation and imitation.
If you want your child to be industrious, let him see you working and encourage him to help you along.
If you want your child to be sympathetic to others, let him see you as you empathize with others.
My sainted grandmother used to say “Your actions speak so loudly that I can’t hear what you are saying.”
Our best teaching is done by modeling the behavior we wish to instill in our children.